It was a call I would never forget. Deborah, my secret girlfriend of two years, called me and told me someone had proposed marriage to her and she was just informing me. “Will I continue to be your secret lover?” I asked. “Yes, if you want it.” I agreed she could go into the marriage, but must remain my secrete girlfriend. The wedding was later arranged and she got married to a very young man. Two days after they had returned from their honeymoon, she called and asked, “When and where we can meet for our first sex after my wedding?” Really, she is in my heart, but I feel it is bad now to have sex with somebody’s legal wife. I need advice.