Foreplay Help

It takes time and hard work for my wife, Jill, to get into it. So, I am the one who does the foreplay. We usually start kissing and caressing. Then I kiss her all over. Then I give her oral. At this point, sometimes she is ready for coitus, but most of the time she asks me to play some more. At this point, I usually ejaculate and don't have the chance to use my penis. So, I have to please her manually. I would like someone to do the foreplay for me and prepare my wife, Jill, to receive me.

— Gary, 42