I have been with this girl for the past 9 years. Two years ago, an old girl friend came back into my life and I have been sleeping with her off and on since then. I don't think I love her, its just lust. What should I do? I really HATE myself.
— John, 31
Not That Innocent
Sugar, Spice, and Everything Nice
No Translator Needed: Read Her Body Language
When you see a woman across the room and feel that attraction, you know it immediately. Next, you wonder if she's interested in you too. Learn to read a woman's body language and you'll have a better chance of connecting.
Warm Her Up With Laughter
Naturally, a woman is going to be more attracted to you if you can make her laugh. And vice versa, right? As with any aspect of dating, the advice "Don't try too hard" is solid. However, you'd be wise not to try too little either. Do make an effort to show your wittiness if you want her to like you. The tendency to use humor to attract a mate does have a few pitfalls and pratfalls, however.