My wife had an affair a few years ago and had really deep feelings for this man. I knew about the whole thing and encouraged it. Something happened; I think his wife was getting too close and he broke it off. My wife told me a couple of times he was very well endowed and I find myself thinking about him. I was friends with him too. I want to find him to have sex with him as well.
— Ed, 70
Sun and Fun
Steamy Summer Blonde!
Wary of Getting Burned Again
It can be hard to put yourself out there for dating when you've been burned in relationships more than once. But the knee-jerk reaction that makes you shy away from dating doesn't really make sense if you consider it logically.
If You Can't Show, Then Tell
In every relationship, there are times when your girl is far away and you need that intimacy fix. When that happens, you have lots of options to keep the bond tight. Experiment with different ways to communicate how you feel about each other.