My wife is hopeless in bed; she never initiates sex, she constantly makes excuses, and then when she agrees, she won't undress or join in. So I am secretly seeing a woman I met a couple of years ago. She is amazing and everything my wife isn't; she loves sex and we have a real chemistry in bed. My wife knows nothing about this and I don't intend on telling her; she's just happy that I don't ask for sex any more.
— Philip, 52
Chain Letter Bikini
Let's Play Peek-A-Boo
Are You Trying Too Hard or Not Hard Enough?
Men, here's the good news: Women do want your love and affection. The bad news: We're damn picky about the specifics. Not enough of that love and affection and we get peeved and look elsewhere. Too much and we're annoyed and bored.
Fun Flirting Tips
Flirting is supposed to be fun. Most guys get so into the competitive aspect of flirting that they make it into something more serious. Flirting is supposed to be fun the same way that giggling about girls when you were in fourth grade was fun. Women aren't nearly as funny anymore, but you get the idea. Make a game out of it!