Some weekends, my wife and her best friend Shannon get together and humiliate me in my own home. They start off by dressing me in lingerie, panties, matching bra, garter belt, stockings, and heels. They take turns spanking me and calling me sissy and other names. About an hour later, Shannon's boyfriend comes over and the three of them proceed up to my bed. I try to follow, but when we get to the doorway Shannon locks the door and I only get to hear my wife. After they are done, he makes me slip into a pink maid's uniform and serve them drinks all night.
— Marcus, 34
Step Up Before She Steps Back
Whether it's your first date or you've been together a few years, don't take the path of least resistance. If you're always expecting her to make the plans, pick the restaurant and movie, or cook the meal for an evening in, no wonder she's cranky and tired when it's time to snuggle. If you want a more positive response, take some initiative and show her you care.
Who's in the Driver's Seat?
Are you the driver or the passenger in your relationship? Most of us hope we get to do a little of both. Pay attention, and you can learn to recognize when to step back and when to step up.