Spanked By Wife
I always had a secret desire to be spanked by my girlfriend or wife. When Alicia and I were married, I mentioned my fantasy to her about spanking me, but she either thought I was kidding or out of my mind. We didn't bring it up again until ten years later; five years ago now. We were both a little drunk and the conversation just started flowing one night alone at home. Turns out, she really enjoys giving a good hard spanking with her hand or a wooden kitchen spoon. Why didn't she just admit this at the beginning? Most of the time I like it, and I really love getting erotic letters in my lunch the read, "Come straight home after work, you're in for it tonight," and that sort of thing. Even though she can make it hurt when she needs to, it's really spiced up our sex life.
— Patrick, 42
Sweet N' Spicy
When Bad Sex Happens to Good Dates
When a promising relationship has so much going for it - great conversation, shared sense of humor, same love of kung-fu movies, whatever - it seems doubly disappointing when the lovemaking is lackluster.
Surviving the Second Date
Sure, the first date is important - you never get a second chance to make a first impression and all that - but it's really the second (and sometimes third) date that really decides whether you'll continue along the road to couplehood, or just call it quits.