I am a very happily married man who is also bi. I have had a few male to male experiences and enjoy them. But, my biggest turn on is a guy in tall lace up work boots, especially steel toed. The smell and feel of the leather just drives me wild. I would love to have sex with a guy while he is wearing his work boots.
— Dirk, 46
Pretty in Pink
Calm Your First Date Fears
First dates create more questions than answers. Will he/she like me? What will we talk about? Did I pick the right restaurant? Is there something in my teeth?
The Mood Killing Mistakes Men Make
There are the obvious mood-killing moves - like telling us we remind you of your mother, while you're undressing us. You know how to avoid those. But there are many more subtle mistakes you guys sometimes make that kill the thrill. Go ahead and purge these moves from your foreplay repertoire.