Active or Passive?

We are forty-one and thirty-seven and have been married for the last ten years. Of late, our bed games have started involving a fictitious third person, a male. While I keep proposing that he get full access to her body, she is restricting it to a passive audience. Maybe a photographer snapping our lovemaking act or something similar. The idea is such a turn on for me that I can't wait to make it happen. I hope she actually allows it in real life.

— Jeremiah, 41