Seeking a Special Connection
As we navigate the relationship maze, we are all seeking a connection. Ideally, we want to find someone we connect with on emotional, intellectual and physical levels.
Before all that comes the flirting level; that's where you explore the beginnings of all the other connections.
Flirt for Fun
As you get acquainted with a new girl, you're dipping your toe in the water to see if the temperature is right. Flirting is your way to let her know you find her attractive without getting too deep emotionally. Flirting is her way of letting you know she's interested in you back. It's also the start of the compatibility test. Have fun with it and see where it goes!
Explore the Emotions
If the flirting seems to be working, you'll want to find out more about each other. Talk about what you're looking for in a relationship and find out what she's seeking as well. Try to avoid talking about what went wrong with previous girlfriends - that's a turn-off. Focus on what feels good emotionally to you. Building this kind of bond will take some time as you talk seriously and also let her see your sense of humor. Laughter can really help the emotional link!
Investigate the Intellect
In the best of situations, you and your new girl will have a similar approach to intellectual stimulation. Maybe you both like to read or you like to explore museums or art galleries. Or maybe it's analyzing sporting events or experimenting with new recipes. Whatever sparks your brain cells, share it with her and see if you can find common interests.
Capitalize on the Chemistry
Of course, even if you connect on the other levels, if there's no physical chemistry, then you're not likely to have a lasting relationship. You don't really need any pointers on this one. You know it when you feel it, and so does she! But the clue here is to make sure this isn't the only type of bond you and your sweetie have. If you can't link up in other ways, then the physical attraction won't last too long.
Try to approach a new relationship with a smile, an open heart, an open mind and open arms. If these connections are working for you, then you'll find the relationship electrifying on all levels!
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