Is She Interested?

Is she interested in me? Does she like me? Stop wondering and find out. Here are some signs to look for.

Eye Contact

Pay attention to how long she's holding your gaze. Less then a second, she wants nothing to do with you (at least not sexually). Less then two seconds, she may just be spacing out. About three seconds or more, um, now you're on to something.

Body Language

If she's playing with her hair and touching the side of her face repeatedly while you're in the midst of conversation, she's sending a clear message: Look at me! Look at me!


Pay attention to how often she smiles when in your presence. Is she laughing at your jokes? If she's making you feel like Jerry Seinfeld (your friends know you're funny, but not that funny), she's smitten.


When she asks how you're doing, does she seem interested in the answer? A woman who merely has a platonic interest in a man doesn't linger while he talks about himself. If it looks like she wants to know more about you, she probably does.


Ask for her number. Getting a business card or an email address from a woman is not usually a good sign. If she's not giving you her home number, one of two things is happening: she's got a boyfriend or she's just not that interested. Better luck next time. You didn't need her anyway.

Bottom Line

Of course, some women are just big flirts who like the idea of bringing men to their knees. The surest way to find out if she likes you is to ask her directly. Try it. You've got nothing to lose. Besides, bold is sexy. Every woman will tell you that.

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Try These Pickup Lines

  • Excuse me, miss. You dropped something: the conversation.
  • Smile! It's the second best thing to do with your lips.
  • I'm not Fred Flintstone, but I'll make your bed rock.
  • Let's get drunk and freaky!
  • If you were on the menu at McDonald's, you would be a happy meal.