Love Lab: 4 Ways to Experiment in the Bedroom

So, you've finally decided to spice up your love life by trying something new. The next step is figuring out just how to do that. Because - and hopefully this has occurred to you already - just showing up sans-notice in leather and latex is more scary than sexy.

Here's how to warm up your lab partner to get sexily experimental.

Emergency Exit

If your partner is a little shy about shunning convention, it's probably driven by a fear that things will get freaky and out of control. Make it clear that if things get uncomfortable, you'll both call it quits. And for heaven's sake, if your sweetie does say stop, be cool about it. Keeping it low key will make it easier to try again later.

XXX, Not Ex, Ex, Ex

Let's say you happen to know you love dressing up like a naughty schoolgirl. It's okay to want your new lover to play with you, but you might want to leave out the parts about how great your ex was at being your punishing teacher. We're not saying you lie outright, but you might have more luck with your new playmate if you're vague about your past experience. Stress "it might be fun if we both tried this" and not "let's do it the hot way my ex liked to."

Baby Steps

You gotta crawl before you can walk, which in sex-speak means you have to tie her up with silk scarves before you can move onto the steel handcuffs. Try sexy variations on your usual positions before you try one of those crazy "Grasshopper Milking a Cow" moves inspired by "The Kama Sutra." Make love in your own backyard before you take on the city park.

Tit for Tat

Put a steamy spin on the typical relationship give and take. If he tries your new move tonight, you'll promise to grant his randy request tomorrow night. Who knew compromise could be so much fun?

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  • I've been undressing you with my eyes all night long, and think it's time to see if I'm right.
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