Are You Good at Juggling?
If you're serious about not getting serious with one woman - instead dating several at the same time - then you'll need a strategic action plan.
Tell the truth - but limit what you say. First, you have to set up the right expectations with each woman. After she agrees to date you, you'll need to quickly find the right time to tell her you're not planning to be exclusive. Explain that you just aren't in that emotional place right now and that you want to enjoy getting to know her and having fun.
Keep it fun.If she's willing to be one of many in your date book, you have to keep it interesting for her. Make an effort to do activities that you both find fun and stimulating. If you want a woman to continue dating you when you're seeing other women, she'll need to know that you're interested in her, not just in dating her and having sex. Keep it light, but not too light.
Don't use terms of endearment or pet names. It may seem harmless to call her "baby" or "sweetie," but you will definitely mislead her if you do that. Yes, this means you will have to remember their names and not call one by another's name. If you can't handle that, then you're not going to be able to juggle your women successfully.
Show respect for her feelings. You can be a player without acting like a player. Don't talk about your other women or dates with her. You can say "I have plans" without getting specific. Don't tell her the other women's names, although she'll probably be able to figure it out if you are Facebook friends with all of them. If you can keep your array of sweeties off your Facebook page, your juggling will be smoother.
Keep in touch. You have to give women enough bait to want to bite onto the idea of dating a guy who won't be exclusive. Call or text her at least once or twice a week, and aim to see her once every one or two weeks - whatever works with both of your schedules. Let her know she's not a last-minute choice and an afterthought.
Remind her of your agreement. Most of your women will dream of being the one who reels you in and changes your player ways. Once in a while you'll have to remind her that you're not planning to be in a committed relationship, that you're having fun with her but you don't intend to change the agreement. She'll need to hear it several times as the dating continues, or she might fool herself into thinking she's winning you over.
And what will you get by following these guidelines? Ideally, you'll have lots of exciting dates and fewer hassles, not more. Most of all, enjoy the different qualities each woman brings to the table - variety is the spice of life!
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