Boost Your Attraction Quotient
Feel like you don't have a clue what attracts women? You're not alone. But you can learn. Here are a few things you can do to boost your magnetism, or as they say, fake it until you make it.
Dress the Part
Make sure you dress appropriately for the venue where you hope to meet a new woman. If it's a sports game, casual attire is best. If it's an upscale bar or restaurant, dress for success. Keep in mind the image you want to portray. You want to fit in and stand out at the same time. Blend with the style range of the crowd you're with, but add some flair so that she gets a taste of your personality. The bottom line is to wear clothes that make you feel attractive and comfortable.
Talk to Her
That's right. It's very simple. Smile at her, and talk to her. Let her know you're interested by asking her questions - who she's here with, whether she's heard the band before, what her favorite drink is. If she's not drinking her favorite, ask her if you can buy her one. If she says no, buy one for yourself and tell her what you think about it. Your job is to get her engaged in a conversation. Making some kind of connection will keep the conversation flowing. The longer you talk and make her laugh, the more she's likely to let her guard down and get to know you. But remember to focus on her, so that she feels your interest.
Take a hint from those hot supermodels you lust after. If you do some kind of athletic activity before a night out on the town, you'll have better skin tone and appear healthier. Yes, women will notice! When you work your muscles, you also tend to carry yourself with more confidence, standing tall, holding your shoulders back and walking like you know where you're going. Not to mention, the activity will boost your mood and energy levels, which can enhance your performance during the meet and greet and afterward.
No, not that way! When you smile and introduce yourself, shake her hand with confidence. If it feels right and she's not shying away, bring your other hand up on top of hers and give her a chance to feel that chemistry. Don't get all creepy touchy-feely on her, think strong and caring. This move also will draw her eyes into yours as you talk to her, so make sure to show her how sincere you are. Look directly into her eyes and smile a real smile, and she'll see the confidence, even if it was hiding inside you until that moment.
If your efforts succeed, use that confidence wisely and find the right moment to ask her out. Carry a card with you so you can give her your number smoothly - no scrambling for a pen, yelling in her ear or asking for her phone to enter your digits. You don't want to put her on the spot; you want to put your number in her hands. Congratulations - you've made it!
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