Guess What I'm Hiding?

I started dating this real sweet, church-going, responsible woman. After a few months, I found out that I was wrong. She and most of the women in her church were lesbians. They were hiding out and trying to keep their secret hidden by dating men, but still sleeping with women. Also, as they condemned gays daily and talked about how they felt what gays did was against God, they then would have their fun later. The relationship, needless to say, crashed and burned faster than a Pinto. We are still friends, but I don't want to be used as a cover or to be lied to ever again. What's up with the Jerry Springer world? When did dating turn into a game of "Guess What I'm Hiding?"

— Oliver, 38

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