A Disappointed Woman

I was divorced for 25 years, and then met a really "nice" guy that I'd been waiting for to get married again. We met at a part time job and used to talk about sex and different oral fun. He told me he used to prostitute himself out, and that made me really excited thinking WOW I'm getting myself a REAL sex machine; someone who could keep up with my sexual appetite. We started dating, things turned serious, and we decided to get married. I was only married once before and I would be his 5th. We had both lived somewhat wild lives, drugs, etc.; and had decided to wait until after we were married to have sex and start going to church again. We got married 4 1/2 years ago and haven't had sex in 3 1/2 years! His package is only about 2" soft and maybe 4" hard. I've always heard it's not what you have but how you use it, right? Well, it's dead and just barely hangs there! I know I should have taken it for a ride more than once before buying it! If I ever get married again and the guy says, "Let's wait until after we get married to have sex," I'll run the other direction as fast as I can. The guy never even let me see "it" before we got married; what a fool I was!

— Arlene, 53

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