I cheated once and only once, over ten years ago. My wife has never let me live it down. She immediately had revenge sex with someone she said I know, but she did not tell me who. I have since been told that she has had sex with others more than a few times; again, I do not know with whom. Since menopause, the activity has increased. Whenever I am with any other man, I wonder if he is one of hers. It always arouses me, which she knows and is amused by.
— Finn, 53