I have been trying to get my wife of twenty-two years to open up to the idea of having sex with another man. I would like to watch, but that is not a deal breaker for me. I think it would be even better for her to meet someone on the side and get to know him before we entertain the idea of me getting to watch. I would be happy if she brought home a video for me to watch. The idea of him calling her at night just to go over to his place for sex is overpowering. I could decide what she left our house dressed in and leave the rest up to them. She has finally decided that she would like to do this, but the problem is remaining discrete. She is willing to do it.
— Gordon, 47