After being with this guy for six years and living with him for almost two, I found out a dark side that he had. Now mind you, I pride myself on being right on top of things, but I missed this one. It appears that my ex has been living a secret life. He enjoys transgenders, transsexuals, and transvestites. His type of employment gives him easy access. There is nothing wrong with this way of life if this is what you like, but to lie to me and tell me that he loved me is a little too much to handle. Then, when I found out, he told me to leave his home. Talk about a slap in the face. Nice guy. -- Ginger, 30