We met online. Our first actual meeting was a lunch date. Just as we'd finished ordering lunch, he sat there reading a local paper. He was looking to see what movies were playing that night even though I had not been invited to go. The only reason I didn't just get up and leave was because I was hungry and had driven half an hour to get there. I asked him how long he'd been on this online dating service. I then recommended he not read the paper while on a date. He thanked me for the correction and put the paper down, but it was already too late to redeem himself. -- Joanna, 26