I've been dating this guy for three years, and he's very controlling. He will blame me for everything in the world. He's extremely controlling. He will go through the house and the outside trashcan to see if I threw any evidence away while he was gone. He always thinks that somebody is cheating on him. He always has to control everything in the world. If things don't go his way, then they won't go any way at all. He is very aggressive. I know you're probably wondering why I've stayed with him for so long. Well, we have a two-year-old daughter and I don't want to confuse her. He abuses me mentally, physically, and emotionally. If he finds a piece of paper on the floor and knows he didn't put it there, then he will holler, "Who's been in my house?!" or, "Where did this come from?!" Sometimes he doesn't even come home. Well, to make a long story short, I need help quick. -- Tanisha, 24