Well, I've been dating this guy for two years now. For the past month, we'd been arguing quite a bit. I racked my brain trying to figure out why we weren't getting along. Finally, after having fight after fight, I just couldn't take it anymore. I told him I wanted to take a break. He all of a sudden realized that he didn't know what he wanted, and said that's why we'd been arguing so much. He said he was at a fork in the road and really didn't know which way to go. My boyfriend is two years younger than I am, and he's already having a midlife crisis. Is it that hard to figure out what you want? Men are so indecisive. -- Amanda, 27