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By Terrey L. Hatcher

If you find yourself attracted to a strong woman, then you’ll need to know how to balance her strength with yours. For things to work, you’ll need to show her that you admire her power, rather than resenting it. You’ll need to show her that she can let go of being strong sometimes, and you’ll support her and hold her up.

Support Her
All of this can be tricky because she’s become strong by surviving life’s experiences. When you go through tough times, you learn to be tougher to survive. But she doesn’t want to have to be tough all the time. She wants you to stand up for her and with her. Be there!

Listen to Her
Her strength comes from her honesty. She’ll tell you what she wants from you. She doesn’t expect perfection, but she expects an honest effort. She expects communication. She wants you to tell her what’s going on straight up. If you fall short too many times, she’ll tell you that too. And if you don’t pay attention, then you won’t get many more chances to step up and show her. Be a good listener!

Be Good to Her
Her power comes from her bravery. Sure she seems confident, but sometimes she’s not at all. She’s learned how to survive by appearing calm in the face of a storm. That means putting herself out there even when she’s been disappointed time after time. That means she’ll trust that you’re a good guy until you prove that you’re not. And if you do show her that you’re not, she won’t be afraid to walk away. Be warned!

Love Her
Her strength comes from having an open heart. She may seem guarded at first, but she’s just holding back a bit until you give her a reason to open up. And that reason is you expressing your feelings for her. She won’t tolerate emotional distance; she wants you to make a consistent effort to bring her close. If not, then her heart will snap shut. Be expressive!

So the question is: Are you strong enough to be her man? If you want this unusual woman, then you need to take some unusual steps to show her. Be that breath of fresh air she needs, and you’ll share her power and energy in ways you’ll never forget. Be that man!