5 Sexy Things to Say in the Sack
By Laura Snyder

Let's face it, when it comes to pillow talk, there are far fewer dos than there are don'ts. Sure, you know it's poor form to holler, "Oo-ee! Mama sure knows how to ride!" during the act, but what's an alternative that wouldn't have your sweetie laughing out loud or leaving the room?

For carnal comments that are charming - not cringe-worthy - here's where to start.

"You..."

Consider the difference between "that feels so good," and "you make me feel so good." Subtle distinction, sure, but it makes a big difference in sentiment - you're referring to your lover as opposed to the sex itself.

"Ooh, yes..."

Or any phrase, moan or inarticulate grunting that indicates that, yes, you are so into that move there. Men and women alike both want feedback to know that what they're doing is turning you on. When you drift into silence, your partner starts thinking, Is this doing anything? Is this bad? Should I stop?

"I want to make you feel good..."

In addition to dishing your own feedback, encourage your partner to do the same by outlining your intent in a way that doesn't heap on performance pressure for your partner - and make you sound like you're more concerned with your abilities than his or her good time.

"You're amazing..."

The idea is to say how great the sex was without sounding like an ungrateful cad. Don't lie, obviously, but say something nice that's a reflection of how you're feeling. Even if it means giving a diplomatic, "My goodness, no one's ever done that to me before."

"Next time, I want to..."

Don't forget that your post-coital comments can be just as arousing as those you rely on during foreplay. By making a sexy suggestion about the future, you'll create anticipation for the good times to come, and you'll reassure your sweetie that you're still swooning even after you've had your way with him or her.

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