By Laura Snyder

Whether you think your new chatting buddy is soulmate material, or just worth sipping a few cocktails with, at some point in your online dating adventures, you'll want to find out if online compatibility translates into real-life chemistry.

Here's how to navigate the transition from online to on a date.

Face Time Tip #1: Timing is everything.

Meet too soon and you can't tell if it's even worth your time. But wait too long and you may find yourself getting too invested - falling for someone's e-mail persona when you have zero chemistry in person. Don't set yourself up for that kind of let-down: share enough information over email and phone to be reasonably assured neither of you are serial killers, and then make a date for drinks or coffee.

Face Time Tip #2: Phone it in first.

A phone conversation is a better gauge of chemistry than Gchat or e-mail. Studies have shown that listeners can infer from a speaker's voice their social class, various personality traits, emotional and mental state and get an idea of how trustworthy they are. In other research, listeners can correctly estimate the height, weight and age of speakers - with the same accuracy they'd have by looking at pictures, about 75 percent. If you listen closely to someone and like what you hear, chances are you'll like what you see.

Face Time Tip #3: Don't be stupid.

Obviously, set up your first meeting in a high-profile public place fairly early in the day (you can save the late night stargazing for when you've determined your safety isn't threatened). Don't invite your date to your home or workplace and steer clear of going anywhere - even romantic strolls on the beach - alone with your online paramour. Use common sense, and if you feel uncomfortable, bail.

Face Time Tip #4: Make it short.

Your first meeting is going to be a nerve-wracking, highly anticipated event as it is, don't add to the pressure by planning to be together all day, or spend the entire time locked in intense conversation. Pick a single activity - wine-tasting, rock climbing, coffee chugging, whatever - and try to wrap things up in an hour or two. If it really is Mr. or Miss Right, there will more many more chances to curl up together for days at a time.