Feeling Strong and Sexy
If low-self esteem and fear of rejection are the reasons you've hidden your sexual goddess from him until now, it's time to practice believing and acting your sexy best. After all, you're likely to only be as sexy (to him) as you see yourself. The best thing to do, says Hooper, is to repeat your newfound mantra, "I am worth waiting for." If he's come this far with you, he's probably willing to wait a bit longer.
While it wouldn't hurt to work on self-confidence on your own, Hooper warns that in any relationship -- and early sexual ones -- especially learning from each other is integral to the development of the relationship.