I am a married bi male; my wife has no idea. Have always enjoyed wearing her negligees and bra. She did eventually find out by placing them in a certain way in drawer. She does not approve, but has gotten over it so I do it when she is not home. I love it and feel so feminine when I use our strap-on on myself. She does me with it sometimes, but I want to be dressed when we do it. So far, that has not happened. I am masculine looking and surely not passable, but when I put on panties, I really love it. Guys, this is a true story. I did get to dress as woman with a guy while he gave me the real thing. I would love to be made a sex slave.