My wife Naomi and I have been married sixteen years, but still enjoy a hot, healthy sex life. Last month, Naomi was away from home for two weeks for business, leaving me alone and, for the first time in a long time, very sexually frustrated. Late one night, I clicked on a link in a spam e-mail and found a swingers web site. Before too long, I had created a guest account and, in a matter of minutes, I found myself in a chatroom. Still figuring out the website, I was startled to hear a beep and receive an IM from a twenty-two year old grad student named Jenny. She said she had always had a thing for older men (I'm 43), and hoped that I would indulge her fantasy. Having clicked on her profile and seen her incredibly hot photos, I was game (and horny as hell) for anything she wanted. What followed was an incredibly "passionate" night of explicit sexting, during which she and I engaged in any and all acts of "virtual" lovemaking, be they traditional or taboo. Nothing was considered off limits or out of bounds. Needless to say, by the end of the evening, I was physically and mentally exhausted from the raw, unbridled fantasies I had explored and shared with Jenny. During the next nine days, Jenny and I found each other online almost every evening and reignited the spark of that first night – we even took our "relationship" to the cam-to-cam level, allowing us to see how aroused we were making each other with just our words. When Naomi returned home, my online encounters were halted, but I never forgot the incredible passion I shared with a woman I never truly met. In fact, there's a big part of me already looking forward to my wife's next trip out of town!