My best friend in the world is a guy. I had an affair with him years ago. After that, we lost touch with each other for several years. He came back into my life about two years ago. We have found that we share a "best friends bond". Neither of us have any expectations from the other. We have the greatest sex ever. He doesn't want a relationship, and he knows I do. We are okay with that. I recently met someone I thought I wanted a relationship with, but it has turned into a nightmare. I haven't seen him in almost two weeks and rarely talk to him. I'm going to stick with my best friend and his steamy, hot, sex with no expectations. We accept each other for who we are and respect that. There should be more guys like my friend for life. -Renee, 45