I am a happily married man with three sons, and into the usual guy-things like sports, cars, and hunting. And, I like to enjoy a relaxing pedicure now and then, complete with polish! I really don't consider it gay or cross dressing because after I tried it the first time (on a suggestion from the nail tech), my wife really liked it! I wear black, brown, gray, silver, and even blue colors. In my opinion, more men should really try this. There is nothing remotely gay about it; it's actually quite enjoyable!