Itís not just men who are having sex with their in-laws. I have been having sex with my brother-in-law since last August, and I fell in love with him. My husband and I have been married for eighteen years. When he got sick ten years ago, I started working, and he stayed home with the kids. Then his brother came into our lives. My husband and his brother were not raised up together and have not seen each other for thirty-five years. I am turning forty this year, and I am starting to want more in my sex life. One day, it happened. I want his brother all the time. I know that this is wrong, and I donít want to hurt my husband, but I fell hard and now I donít want to stop.