Stop Making Snap Judgments if You Want to Snap Up a Winner
When you're dating someone new, you may be feeling a bit unsure about the possibilities. You might be trying to figure out the hazards that lay ahead. Or what you've done wrong in the past. And you might also want to know what you've done right.
Wrong depends on who's judging. So does right.
No matter how great you are, how smart you are, how hot you are, how kind you are, how fun you are, no one is going to appreciate all that about you unless they're in a place to recognize your special strengths.
And if they have some faults of their own, then you have to be in a place to recognize their room for growth. You have to appreciate that their strengths might just have the possibility to outweigh their weaknesses.
No one's perfect. No one is going to appear as your ideal match unless you take some time to get to know them and see what works for you.
Everyone has their strong points. And everyone has their weak ones.
The only way that you're going to find out what pushes your buttons in a good way is to interact and communicate. That's the only way you'll find out if this imperfect babe is worth your time and effort.
If you let fear overcome your desire find a fitting relationship, then you're basically giving up. You're saying fear and loneliness outweigh the benefits of love and companionship.
Sure, you can look back at your love life and realize that you haven't always made wise choices. Yet when you're in the thick of it, it's not always so easy. Do you choose lust or love? Play it loose or make a commitment?
You still have to choose.
You have to choose whether to stand still and accept your current situation or put yourself out there and take a chance on love. And you have to choose whether to embrace the possibilities and express your likes, loves and passions wholeheartedly, risking rejection.
Give this special someone time to appreciate your unique and quirky characteristics. If they can't, then you'd better move on and move up. Climb higher and reach for real love. You shouldn't regret putting yourself out there, even if you're ultimately put out by the result.
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