Build Your Desirability—Love Yourself

If you're feeling lonely and wondering if you'll ever find real love, look no further. Instead, look in the mirror!

You can find real love if you give it to yourself. Yes, I know it's a cliché. I know you're tired of hearing that you need to learn to love yourself so that others will love you. But you've heard it so many times because it's true!

If you're not feeling that you're attracting the kind of partner you want in your life, work harder on loving yourself instead of finding love from someone else. I bet you're wondering what that really means, right? How do you "love yourself"?

Signs of Affection
Of course, it's pretty easy to love yourself in a (shhh!) sexual way. But do you find it harder to love yourself in terms of who you are physically and emotionally?

We all have our flaws—you do and your partners do too. But if you focus too much on those weak spots, you're missing out on celebrating your strengths.

So, to get started on your journey to more self-love, think about what makes you feel unique. Make a list of at least three things. Post it on your bathroom mirror and remind yourself about what makes you special every day. Smile at yourself when you read it!

Now think about what makes you feel loved. Make a list of at least five things you can do for yourself that will make you feel cared for. Do at least one of those things today. Do at least one of those things tomorrow. Hug yourself each time you do one.

Shining the Light
If you're feeling the love, consider also doing something caring for someone else in your life. The appreciation will make you feel more lovable. I hope you know you are already, but it helps when you hear someone else tell you so and will make you feel deep in your heart that you truly are.

Try to make loving yourself more of a joyful habit in your life, and you'll exude a loving spirit that will attract more caring people to you. Self-love shouldn't be difficult, but love hard!

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