She Hid Her Bi-Sexuality
Q: Things are getting serious with the guy I'm seeing. We recently were talking about our relationship histories and I wasn't totally honest about mine. I told him about a long-term relationship I had, but didn't reveal that my partner was a woman! I want to come clean, but I'm afraid of how he'll react. Help! - Kayla, 32
Dr. Susan: You have to tell him the truth, and the sooner the better. If you consider yourself bi-sexual now or no longer, I'm sure he'd want to know. Let him ask you all the questions he wants, and give him honest replies. You're right to be anxious about his response. Still, you can't hide a large part of yourself forever and hope to have a genuinely intimate relationship with this guy.
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